How do you irritate an INFJ?

What makes an INFJ irritated?

Because INFJs are so naturally aware of harmony levels and emotional needs, they are irritated by people who seem tactless, rude, mean-spirited, troll-ish, or unnecessarily disruptive. In situations where someone is corrupting the emotional atmosphere for their own selfish gains, an INFJ can become severely angered.

What scares INFJ the most?

What makes an INFJ uncomfortable?

Reading too much into a situation

INFJs can appear very awkward when their intuition kicks in and they start reading into a situation. For instance, if someone is being sweeter to the boss than usual, you may infer that they are doing it to get ahead at work.

What turns off an INFJ?

Arrogance and insensitivity are the biggest turn offs for an INFJ. When someone treats others poorly and acts as though they are better than them, the INFJ will become disinterested and even disgusted by that person.

10 Ways To Irritate An INFJ

What annoys INFJs the most?

INFJs detest attention-seeking behaviors and melodrama. Their strong intuition combined with their awareness of emotions makes it easy for them to spot when someone is being fake or is always seeking the spotlight. Emotionally manipulative movies and TV shows also get on their nerves.

Do INFJ get annoyed easily?

INFJs are not normally short-tempered people, and have a lot of patience in most situations. It takes the INFJ a while before they will become very angry with someone. While INFJs do take a long time to lose their patience, once they do it can be a bit intense.

What hurts an INFJ the most?

INFJs are easily rattled, anxious and stressed when they have too much to do in a short space of time, when they aren't given time to reflect on problems or when someone is watching them.

How do you tell if an INFJ is mad at you?

Usually, they will get more withdrawn and stuck in their head when they're angry. They might try to shut off noise, lights, or find a room they can hide away in to deal with their thoughts and charged emotions. Some INFJs shut down and stop talking and reacting, trying to sort out their thoughts inside.

What stresses out an INFJ?

Crowds, noise, frequent interruptions - INFJs need their personal space and may experience great anxiety if they have too much contact with people in one day. Faced with such provocations, there's a risk that you will spread yourself so thin responding to other people's problems that you neglect your own needs.

What are INFJs insecure about?

INFJs feel insecure when they receive criticism or are faced with conflict or confrontation. They want to live in a harmonious atmosphere as much as possible, and they tend to take criticism very personally as children. SIDE-NOTE: INJs can enjoy sports, as any type can.

When an INFJ goes silent?

What happens when an INFJ gets mad? INFJs often lock out their emotions when they're upset. These often try to process their thoughts before reacting, which is why they might keep quiet or shut people out when aggrieved. The last thing they'd want to do is to react without consideration.

What not to do to an INFJ?

What does a toxic INFJ look like?

INFJs that are unhealthy take things to heart quite easily. They take any criticism personally and can easily conjure up a "me vs the world" situation in their heads. Similar to the way a narcissist holds grudges, someone with an unhealthy personality might grow resentful of others that unintentionally hurt them.

What happens when INFJ gets angry?

If you're an INFJ, you suppress your anger. “The Counselor” type will avoid addressing their feelings of frustration because they hate conflict, and the idea of confronting someone might break them out in hives.

What makes an INFJ cry?

Sadness and especially crying of others triggers INFJ's empathy very strongly. Although I'm sure all INFJs feel those strong emotions, it might be very personal how each person reacts to them, so I'll answer about myself. For close people I try to always engage and try to bring the person to a better mood.

What does a stressed INFJ look like?

Grip stress makes the INFJ suddenly start behaving like an unhealthy, imbalanced ESTP. We lose our long-range focus, our typical empathetic nature and become focused on indulgence and sensory pleasure. We may become impulsive and reckless, seeking out thrills or enjoyment even if it's dangerous.

How do you tell if an INFJ secretly likes you?

INFJs tend to be guarded about their physical space, except for when it comes to family and VERY close friends. If they're finding excuses to touch your hand, bump up against you, or hug you, then it probably means they have feelings for you. Keep in mind, some INFJs will still feel too shy to get very close to you.

How do you tell if an INFJ is stressed?

For the INFJ, stress can start out by making us more true-to-type. A stressed INFJ might disappear from the world for a while and ignore texts, phone calls, and responsibilities. After a while, they might call up a good friend and vent about their struggles and fears.

How do INFJs act around their crush?

When I surveyed INFJs about their flirting styles, more than anything, they expressed a deep desire to connect emotionally with someone they liked. They will be more emotionally open, express more of their deeper longings, and become more vulnerable with you if they like you.

How do INFJs respond to trauma?

Because of how INFJs deal with past pain, they're likely to have similar reactions to trauma. These include: Avoiding people, places, or things that remind them of the trauma. Experiencing fear and anxiety about the outside world.

When an INFJ shuts down?

INFJs are empathetic, patient listeners and loyal friends, but they may shut down when others push them too far. The Counselor personality has a cold, closed side, and it can be extremely hard to win them back as a friend when that relationship becomes strained.

How do you calm down an INFJ?

Do INFJs hold grudges?

Perhaps the most sensitive of all the personality types, INFJs take it hard when someone they trust lets them down. They tend to hold on to anger longer than they should and are capable of holding a grudge even when the other person has apologized, repeatedly, for their wrongdoing.

What makes an INFJ happy?

An outlet for their insights

Thanks to their Introverted Intuition function, they excel at predicting what people will do, and they easily “see behind the curtain” in any given situation. Many INFJs find that sharing their insights through writing, counseling, or leadership makes them happy.