How do you make your first kiss less awkward?

Publisher
  1. Don't Narrate. What makes a kiss magical is when it's impromptu, whimsical, romantic and unexpected. ...
  2. Don't Brag About It. ...
  3. Don't Sabotage Yourself. ...
  4. Make the Kiss Feel Special. ...
  5. Avoid Going in Too Fast. ...
  6. Go Easy on the Tongue. ...
  7. Clean Your Mouth.


Is it normal for your first kiss to be awkward?

Generally, yes, they are. First kisses are usually when you're young and inexperienced so it's not likely to be perfect and no matter how much you read up about kissing it's nothing like the real thing. The good news is that the kissing gets better as you get older.

Why am I so nervous to have my first kiss?

Philemaphobia, or philematophobia, is the fear of kissing. It is common among young and inexperienced kissers who are afraid of doing something wrong. In these cases, the anxiety is generally mild to moderate and dissipates quickly as the person gains experience.


What is the average age for 1st kiss?

No need to wait for the official first date to get a little face time, however. Americans agree kids are ready for their first kiss at age 15 (15.1 on average), while on average, they had theirs at age 14.5.

What is a first kiss meant to feel like?

Chances are, your first kiss will be gentle and sweet. It may possibly be that you and your partner are both new to the kissing scene so they may not know what to do either. Although the experience may not be that long, the tender feeling of the person's lips will stay with you for a very long time.


How to Kiss at a Young Age



How do you start off a kiss?

  1. Build up to the kiss. ...
  2. Make sure the kiss has your, and the other party's, consent. ...
  3. Start things slow. ...
  4. Keep your mouth soft and relaxed. ...
  5. Switch your area of focus and/or your speed. ...
  6. Speaking of area of focus — move things away from their lips. ...
  7. Go easy on the tongue. ...
  8. Don't overthink it.


How do you train to be a good kisser?

*Show him the way. Initiate by teasing him with intimate kissing techniques when he least expects, since once his mouth starts moving too much, it's going to be tricky to tame him. Instead, sensuously nibble or gently suck on his lip, and give him a tender surface lip kiss.

How can I improve my kissing ability?

  1. Make sure your partner is into it. ...
  2. It bears repeating: Try to be in the moment. ...
  3. Let your lips linger—even for shorter kisses. ...
  4. If everyone is down with tongue, introduce it slowly. ...
  5. Build your way up to sharing more saliva. ...
  6. Don't neglect other body parts. ...
  7. If you're going to bite, be gentle.


What not to do on your first kiss?

9 things you're doing wrong when you kiss
  • Don't lead with your tongue. Hold on a second. ...
  • Don't become a human faucet. Keep saliva at a minimum. ...
  • Don't go over-the-top. ...
  • Don't drift off. ...
  • Try not to make a smacking sound. ...
  • Don't sneak a peak. ...
  • Don't only focus on the lips. ...
  • Don't chomp down on their lips.


Which kiss is best for first kiss?

Peck. The peck is a simple, light touch of the lips. The lips might be closed and slightly puckered or pursed, or they might be looser. This is generally what people aim for with their first kiss because it's intimate without being overly sensual.

How do you know if you are a good kisser?

8 signs you're a great kisser
  1. You get rave reviews. People will let you know. ...
  2. You kiss often. Leave them wanting more. ...
  3. You kiss for a long time. ...
  4. You feel in sync with your kissing partner. ...
  5. You're confident. ...
  6. You're not afraid to use your hands. ...
  7. You practice good oral hygiene. ...
  8. You've mastered multiple types of kissing.


How is kissing supposed to feel?

When you kiss someone, you are supposed to feel a spark and excitement over what is happening whilst you are kissing them. It can be described as feeling like electricity running through your body and can give you goosebumps or make your lips super sensitive to touch.

How can I practice deep kissing?

If you receive the green light to deepen the kiss, part your lips and gently use your tongue to stimulate your partner's lips and tongue. Run your tongue along their lips or slide your tongue along theirs. Take it slowly and gently, allowing the intensity to build as you match your partner's energy and movements.

How do you make a tasty kiss?

First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don't press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women. On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing.


How do I practice my first kiss?

If you and your partner both feel comfortable doing more, go for it!
  1. Pay attention to body language. ...
  2. Gradually increase the intensity. ...
  3. Make eye contact between, or even during, kisses. ...
  4. Take a break from their lips. ...
  5. If you're going to bite, be gentle.


How do you kiss someone without it being awkward?

Here are seven tips to puckering up without tragic consequences.
  1. Don't Narrate. What makes a kiss magical is when it's impromptu, whimsical, romantic and unexpected. ...
  2. Don't Brag About It. ...
  3. Don't Sabotage Yourself. ...
  4. Make the Kiss Feel Special. ...
  5. Avoid Going in Too Fast. ...
  6. Go Easy on the Tongue. ...
  7. Clean Your Mouth.


Does kissing come naturally?

Kissing comes naturally but our techniques can evolve.

So while all of us seem to be programmed to know what to do, we pick up culture-specific techniques from movies and TV. Still, Kirshenbaum said, "There are definitely things people can learn to make it a better experience."


What happens after 1st kiss?

You experience an adrenaline rush: When you kiss someone for the first time, your body will release a burst of adrenaline (the fight-or-flight chemical) which increases your heart rate, boosts your energy levels and gets the blood flowing.

What is the next step after kiss?

After the kiss, pull your head back slowly to give each of you some space. If you wrapped a hand around each other, you can lightly ease off, or hold each other close for a more intimate moment. Look your partner in the eyes and smile.

How does a boy feel after kissing?

You can feel his heart race.

You'll probably also notice that he's blushing or breathing a little more heavily. A passionate makeout session releases adrenaline–not only does it kick up his heart rate, but it also boosts his energy. Check if he suddenly seems happy and hyper.


Do you just touch lips when kissing?

Gently touch your lips to your date's lips. No big SMACKS (you're not kissing your grandmother or your dog); no wide-open mouth (you're not trying to devour your partner). Just your lips, about as open as they are when you're just breathing through your mouth.

Are kisses supposed to be wet or dry?

Most people are quite happy remaining dry during a kiss. Your tongue should never be long, wet and limp; this person's face should never have a wet upper lip, wet lower lip, wet cheek or wet chin.

What is a butterfly kiss?

noun. : the act or an instance of fluttering one's eyelashes against another person's skin.