What attracts an INFJ?

As sensitive personalities, INFJs feel attracted to people who show kindness towards others. Extraverted Feeling is their auxiliary function, which means INFJs try to connect in a gentle way, and appreciate those who can do the same. Most INFJs also strive to make a positive impact on the world.


How do you know if an INFJ likes you?

INFJs tend to be guarded about their physical space, except for when it comes to family and VERY close friends. If they're finding excuses to touch your hand, bump up against you, or hug you, then it probably means they have feelings for you. Keep in mind, some INFJs will still feel too shy to get very close to you.

How do you get an INFJ attention?

For good attention from an INFJ**: Talk about anything you're passionate about. Preferably “deeper” topics like what motivates you to wake up everyday or what you feel your purpose is. Personally, I love the glow people get when they really, truly love something and want to share it with someone else.


How to seduce a INFJ?

So even though this does not sound like flirting, it is exactly what will work on INFJ males and females alike.
  1. Be honest. ...
  2. Tell them a story. ...
  3. Be an attentive listener. ...
  4. Show them your sense of humor. ...
  5. Show them that you aren't afraid to be vulnerable. ...
  6. Look for your personality's best match!


What do INFJs do when they like someone?

#2 – They Bare Their Soul to You

When I surveyed INFJs about their flirting styles, more than anything, they expressed a deep desire to connect emotionally with someone they liked. They will be more emotionally open, express more of their deeper longings, and become more vulnerable with you if they like you.


What Attracts The INFJ? | The Rarest Personality



What is the love language of INFJ?

According to Priebe's survey, 35.67% of INFJs list “Quality Time” as their preferred love language. This is followed by Words of Affirmation (25.54%), Physical Touch (21.83%), Acts of Service (14.04%), and Gifts (2.92%).

What do INFJs love the most?

21 Hobbies That INFJs Love
  • Appreciating Nature. INFJs often love to spend time in nature, especially alone time. ...
  • Art. Making and appreciating art is another favorite hobby for INFJs. ...
  • Conversation. INFJs often enjoy deep, intellectual conversation. ...
  • Cooking and Baking. ...
  • Crafting. ...
  • Cultural Events. ...
  • Dance. ...
  • Daydreaming.


What scares INFJ the most?

The Top 10 Things That Terrify INFJs
  • Humanity's Potential for Evil. INFJs crave a world where equality, compassion, and freedom reign. ...
  • Death or Loss of Children. ...
  • Phone Calls. ...
  • Crowds. ...
  • Ghosts. ...
  • Insanity. ...
  • Abandonment. ...
  • The Supernatural.


Do INFJ like physical affection?

Physical Touch is something many INFJs are cautious about. You'll rarely find INFJs engaging in casual touch with just anyone. Touch (even something as simple as a hug or a pat on the shoulder) is usually something we only enjoy from people we trust and are very close to.

How do you hook up an INFJ?

If you want to get to know an INFJ, patience, listening and reassurance are the biggest things. It's scary for us to let somebody in , so give us time and show kindness to encourage the process.

What turns off an INFJ?

Arrogance and insensitivity are the biggest turn offs for an INFJ. When someone treats others poorly and acts as though they are better than them, the INFJ will become disinterested and even disgusted by that person.


What does an INFJ want to hear?

Meaningful conversation

They want to hear the secret thoughts you're afraid to utter. How you're really feeling, even though you said you're “doing fine.” INFJs love discussing personal, big-idea topics. They especially love helping other people understand their complicated, messy emotions and grow.

What makes an INFJ happy?

Meaningful connection

INFJs need to be able to go deep with their friendships and relationships. They need to be able to talk about society, different world views, life and death, self-improvement, personal values and struggles, the meaning of life, etc.

How do INFJ dress?

INFJs seek uniqueness in many things, including their style. Whether it's a necklace made from a rare stone set in an unusual way or an asymmetrical cut to the expected corporate attire, the stylish INFJ will want something about their look to be unique, something others won't be wearing.


What makes INFJ jealous?

Because of our passionate need for meaningful connection, we INFJs can get jealous easily when we see other people connecting and having fun. We might compare ourselves to them, or worse yet, when someone close to us has friends of their own, we might pull away, feeling unwanted and pathetic.

What do INFJs like to watch?

INFJs love the good versus evil storyline and enjoy the analogies, rich characters, and beautiful visuals that fill the Harry Potter world. Many typologists even believe that Professor Albus Dumbledore is an INFJ character!

Can INFJ read body language?

We INFJs can read the subtle body language that signals someone needs me-time and, because we understand exactly how they feel, we can make sure they know that it's okay (which is validating for them).


What are INFJs insecure about?

INFJs feel insecure when they receive criticism or are faced with conflict or confrontation. They want to live in a harmonious atmosphere as much as possible, and they tend to take criticism very personally as children. SIDE-NOTE: INJs can enjoy sports, as any type can.

What makes an INFJ uncomfortable?

Reading too much into a situation

INFJs can appear very awkward when their intuition kicks in and they start reading into a situation. For instance, if someone is being sweeter to the boss than usual, you may infer that they are doing it to get ahead at work.

What makes an INFJ intimidating?

Because they are often reserved, high-achieving individuals with high expectations of both themselves and others, INFJs can be intimidating to other personality types. Since INFJs are also the rarest personality type, many people misunderstand them.


Are INFJ dominant or submissive?

INFJs ranked as having low dominance according to the CPI™ tool. Since the traits linked with low-dominance were being quiet, cautious, or hesitant to take action, this makes sense. INFJs tend to be on the quiet side, and they also tend to be extremely independent.

Who INFJ is the best partner for?

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, INFJ's natural partner is the ENTP, or the ENFP. INFJ's dominant function of Introverted Intuition is best matched with a personality type that is dominated by Extraverted Intuition.

Do INFJs fall out of love easily?

The rarest personality type in the Myers-Briggs system, INFJs are typically warm and caring people. But it may be surprising that they're also known to cut off relationships quickly — see the infamous door slam.


Who is the soulmate of INFJ?

Any time I read an article about INFJs and relationships, it seems to repeat the same advice: our “ideal” match is the ENTP personality type. Then there is almost always a statement about how any two personality types can make a relationship work if they try hard enough.

Who is INFJ golden pair?

INFJs and INTPs are one of the most common relationship pairings; so common, in fact, that they are often called “the golden pair”.