What do parents of twins need most?

Parents of twins need practical gear for two, like double strollers, twin feeding pillows, and multiple safe sleep/play spaces, but most importantly, they need support (help with chores/meals), flexibility, patience, and ways to manage sleep deprivation, plus items that offer "extra hands" like baby carriers and automated bottle warmers, while prioritizing their own self-care and simplifying routines.


What do mothers of twins need most?

Here are the items every twin parent needs:
  • HALO Bassinest sleeper. This bassinet was key after coming home with our twins. ...
  • Magnetic me clothes. ...
  • WubbaNub pacifiers. ...
  • Eco Pea bamboo diapers. ...
  • Kibou fannypack diaper bag. ...
  • Bottle warmer and formula dispenser. ...
  • Wonderfold Wagon. ...
  • Twin-Z pillow.


What is the best gift for someone having twins?

Two identical sleep sacks or wearable swaddles -- same size and fabric for easier laundry rotation. Two baby thermometers, two soft baby hairbrushes, and two pacifier sets to avoid cross-contamination. Large-capacity diaper bag designed for twins or two coordinated single diaper bags with a tote for extras.


Do twins depend on mom or dad?

Twins depend on both parents, but the likelihood of fraternal (non-identical) twins is mostly genetic, inherited from the mother's side, as it involves her releasing multiple eggs (hyperovulation), a trait passed down. Identical twins, however, are random and not genetic, though the father can carry genes that influence fraternal twinning in future generations. 

What do you need when you have twins?

Preparing for Twins
  • Must-Have Two of when Expecting Twins
  • Breastfeeding Twins Twin Nursing Pillow
  • Breast Pump
  • Twins - Double Stroller Double Stroller
  • SwaddleMe Blankets
  • On Becoming Baby Wise Book
  • Backpack-Style Diaper Bag


Twin Newborn Must-haves from a Twin Mom!! (What I would actually get again for my twin babies)



What parent passes down the twin gene?

For fraternal (dizygotic) twins, the genetic tendency for hyperovulation (releasing more than one egg) is often passed through the mother's side, meaning the pregnant parent's genes are key, but the father can carry and pass this trait to his daughters, increasing their future chances. For identical (monozygotic) twins, genetics play a minor role, as they usually occur randomly when one fertilized egg splits, though some rare genetic factors might influence the split.
 

How do I make my twins feel special?

You can make each child feel special by giving them their own cake and singing 'Happy Birthday' to each in turn. Encourage the development of individual interests as well as allowing them to choose the same as a sibling. This gives them the chance to find out what they enjoy most.

Who carries the DNA for twins?

The genetic predisposition for twins only affects the mother (or pregnant partner). The other parent can pass down these genetic traits to their children. Still, they won't be more likely to have twins themselves unless the pregnant parent or surrogate also has a family history of twins.


Which twin is older?

The twin born first is generally considered the older one in most cultures, but the second-born twin can technically be older due to time changes (like Daylight Saving) or, in some cultures, is considered the elder who prepared the way. For identical twins, it's usually the one born minutes earlier; for fraternal twins, it's the one conceived first, though this isn't always known.
 

How to help new parents of twins?

10 Tips for New Moms of Twins
  1. Get help! One baby is a lot of work. ...
  2. Breastfeed as much as you can, exclusively if possible. ...
  3. Sleep when your babies sleep. ...
  4. Feed both babies at the same time. ...
  5. Keep a record. ...
  6. Get to know your crock pot! ...
  7. Ditch the PJs. ...
  8. Wear that baby!


What to gift parents after a baby is born?

Some unique baby gift ideas include personalized items such as engraved blankets, nursery décor, or custom memory books. Another great idea is to give a gift set filled with baby books or keepsake items that will grow with the child, providing both sentimental value and enjoyment for the new parents.


What benefits do you get for having twins?

Your entitlements to leave and pay are the same as if you were expecting one baby. But you can claim Child Benefit and Child Tax Credit for each of your children. If you're on a low income and getting certain benefits or tax credits, you could get a Sure Start Maternity Grant.

What to buy someone who is having twins?

25 insanely useful gifts for twin parents
  • Lalo high chair.
  • Bumbleride Indie Twin stroller.
  • Lou Lou Lollipop headbands.
  • TwinGo carrier.
  • Doona car seat.
  • Table for two seat.
  • Comotomo bottle set.
  • BABYBJORN Bouncer.


What is the hardest part of raising twins?

It is hard for parents to dedicate sole time to the parenting or the developmental needs of each twin. These two children are typically (but not in all cases) going through the same developmental milestones at the same time. You may have two children learning to walk, talk, toileting etc at the same time.


Are mothers of twins healthier?

Twinning mothers are more likely to have longer reproductive spans, higher lifetime fertility, later ages at last birth and consequent longer post-menopausal lifespan, shorter interbirth intervals, and better anthropometric characteristics (Sear et al.

Which parent carries the twin trait?

For fraternal (dizygotic) twins, the genetic tendency for hyperovulation (releasing more than one egg) is often passed through the mother's side, meaning the pregnant parent's genes are key, but the father can carry and pass this trait to his daughters, increasing their future chances. For identical (monozygotic) twins, genetics play a minor role, as they usually occur randomly when one fertilized egg splits, though some rare genetic factors might influence the split.
 

Why can't you say siamese twins?

You can still say "Siamese twins," but it's outdated and often replaced by the more accurate and sensitive term, "conjoined twins," because the original term links to historical "freak shows," isn't geographically accurate for most cases (as it comes from Chang and Eng Bunker of Siam, now Thailand), and can feel dehumanizing, similar to outdated terms for other conditions. "Conjoined twins" is the preferred medical and respectful term for twins physically joined in utero. 


What gender of twins is most common?

The most common twin gender combination is boy-girl (mixed-gender) for fraternal twins, making up about half of those births, while overall, female twins are slightly more common than male twins due to higher male fetal loss in the womb; identical twins are always the same sex.
 

Does the father's side affect twin births?

Fraternal twin pregnancies result from hyperovulation of the mother. The father's sperm does not decrease or increase the chance of having twins. Skipping a generation can happen in some cases, depending on whether the twins are boys or girls.

What is special about fraternal twins?

What's special about fraternal twins is they're two separate babies, fertilized from two eggs and two sperm, making them genetically unique like any other siblings, even sharing a birthday; they can be different sexes, have different features (hair, eyes), and even different placentas, but still share about 50% of their genes and can develop unique traits like their own "secret language" (cryptophasia) or strong bond.
 


What does God say about twins?

God's perspective on twins, particularly in the Bible, highlights their unique destinies and the fulfillment of His plans through them, most famously with Jacob and Esau, where God declared the younger would rule the older, signifying divine purpose over birth order. The Scriptures show God using twins to form nations, illustrate complex family dynamics, and reveal His sovereign choice, with other biblical twins like Perez and Zerah and the ship's figurehead (Dioscuri), showing twins as significant, sometimes symbolic, figures in His unfolding story. 

How to cuddle twins?

Cuddles work wonders for multiples or twins crying at the same time. To safely cuddle all your babies on your chest at the same time it is easiest to sit on the floor. Lay the babies on their backs, side by side and put one arm under their necks and one arm under their bottoms.

What do twins struggle with?

Competition, jealousy, sharing, and expectations make twinship a hard relationship to navigate. Twins are sometimes confused as to who they are in relationship to each other. It's important not to make twins feel guilty or ashamed if they don't get along.