What is unique about the Amish?

The Amish are a Christian subculture known for living "in the world, not of it," prioritizing community, faith, and extreme simplicity by rejecting modern conveniences like grid electricity, automobiles, and, often, zippers. Key aspects include horse-drawn transport, 17th-century style clothing, and this Quora post on their emphasis on, and commitment to, family-centered living.

What is so special about the Amish?

The spirit of the Amish lifestyle is exhibited through their strong sense of dedication and love for their church communities. They believe that community is at the heart of their life and faith and that the way to salvation is to live as a loving community separate from the world.

Why do Amish remove their teeth?

Amish people sometimes have teeth removed, often by unlicensed local "dentists," to avoid the high costs of modern dental care, view dentures as a simpler, cheaper solution, or as a cultural practice (like a rite of passage or pre-marriage), but this is often due to poverty, isolation from mainstream healthcare, and traditional practices, leading to poor oral health and reliance on extractions rather than fillings or crowns. 

How many wifes can Amish have?

Amish men can only have one wife at a time, as polygamy (having multiple wives) is not practiced, and divorce is generally not allowed, making marriages monogamous lifelong commitments, though widowers can remarry within their community, often to an older single woman or a widow for companionship or family formation. 

Can Amish kiss before marriage?

Yes, Amish couples can kiss before marriage, but it's often very limited and happens privately, usually during "bundling" or late-night courting sessions where they might share a kiss after some rocking or conversation, but public affection is frowned upon, and strict rules (like a board in bed) are sometimes used to maintain modesty and prevent premarital sex, though premarital sex does occur despite being a sin. 

The wedding night is usually special, but not in Amish traditions. Here's why

Do Amish ladies wear bras?

Yes, most Amish women wear bras, but they are typically plain, functional cotton styles (not lacy or fancy), and in some very conservative communities, a hand-sewn alternative garment might be used instead of a store-bought bra for modesty and nursing needs. The specific undergarments vary by community, but the general principle is simplicity and practicality, not adornment. 

What must an Amish bride do on her wedding night?

On their wedding night, an Amish woman spends her first night as a wife in her parents' home, often with playful pranks from friends, before helping with cleanup the next day, as the "honeymoon" involves visiting relatives to receive gifts, not a separate trip. The evening involves celebration, but the focus is on community and preparation for starting their new life, often living with parents initially. 

Do Amish men use condoms?

Therefore, the use of condoms by Amish men is strictly forbidden and condemned in most, if not all, Amish communities.

At what age do Amish girls marry?

Amish girls typically get married in their early 20s, often between ages 20 and 22, usually shortly after being baptized into the church during their late teens or early twenties, with dating starting around 16 and partners found at social events like Sunday singings. 

How do Amish deal with periods?

Amish women manage periods using traditional, reusable methods like cloth pads (often homemade rags) for absorption, similar to historical practices before modern disposables, focusing on resourcefulness and cleanliness by washing and reusing them, while also relying on family planning through calendar-based fertility awareness to avoid pregnancy, reflecting their simple, faith-based lifestyle. 

Do Amish have toilet paper?

Yes, most Amish people use toilet paper today, though traditional or stricter groups might use rags (reusable cloth) or other methods; modern conveniences like TP are common in less restrictive communities, especially where they interact more with the outside world, reflecting the Amish balance between tradition and practical needs, says Amish Furniture Factory.
 

Why do Amish sleep with a board between them?

Bundling, or tarrying, is the traditional practice of wrapping a couple together in a bed, sometimes with a board between the two of them, usually as a part of courting behavior.

Do the Amish circumcise their boys?

Yes, many Amish communities practice infant male circumcision, often arranged through midwives, though it's not universal across all groups, with about two-thirds of communities reportedly promoting it as a health practice rather than a strict religious ritual. 

Why are the Amish so rich?

Earning renown as skilled entrepreneurs, the Amish generate income from a diverse array of businesses, ranging from carpentry and construction to retail shops and restaurants. While the Amish are most well-known for farming, community members also provide a variety of services including lodgings and furniture-making.

Can Amish look in mirrors?

Yes, the Amish can look in mirrors, and they use them for grooming, like fixing hair and shaving, as mirrors aren't considered vanity objects or "graven images" in the same way photographs are; the prohibition is more about avoiding vanity and individualism, with mirrors serving practical purposes in homes for daily routines, though they avoid posing for photos.
 

Do Amish people fly on planes?

Yes, Amish people can and sometimes do fly on planes, especially for emergencies, business, or connecting with distant family, though it's generally discouraged for leisure as it's seen as too "worldly" or luxurious; however, New Order Amish groups are more likely to permit air travel for various reasons, while most traditional Amish use other transport like trains or vans for long distances. 

What's the average lifespan of an Amish?

Amish life expectancy is generally similar to the U.S. average (around 70s-80s), but with better health in old age, though a century ago they lived significantly longer than other Americans. While lifestyle factors like high physical activity contribute to good health, some specific Amish communities have a rare genetic mutation (in the PAI-1 gene) that slows aging and boosts longevity to the mid-80s, making them an exception rather than the rule for overall longer lives.
 

Why is celery important in Amish weddings?

Jars of celery are set out on tables for decoration. Celery sprouting in the garden is a sign of hope. It's a sign of a young woman's faith that she will soon have a home of her own and then a family. It means that she, above all others, is the chosen bride.

Do Amish girls get pregnant during Rumspringa?

Rumspringa is a period that begins at age sixteen and ends with the promise of baptism, during this period young Amish are exposed to the outside world. Another problem the Amish community faces during the Rumspringa period is unexpected pregnancy.

Do Amish girls wear bras?

Yes, many Amish women wear bras, but they are typically plain, simple, and functional (like basic cotton styles), not fancy or lacy, though some more conservative groups might use a hand-sewn undergarment for modesty and support instead of a store-bought bra. The choice often depends on the specific community's level of conservatism, with some allowing modern undergarments and others preferring traditional modesty. 

Do Amish ladies shave?

No, generally Amish women do not shave their legs or underarms; it's often against their community's rules (Ordnung) as it's seen as vanity or worldly, with natural hair being preferred, though some individual women might bend the rules, facing potential shunning or discipline from their church. Their hair is kept up, covered, and grown long, emphasizing modesty over modern beauty standards, and while they might use razors for hair cutting (like trimming long hair), shaving for smoothness is typically forbidden. 

Do Amish men wear underpants?

Yes, most Amish men wear underwear, typically simple, practical styles like boxers or briefs, similar to store-bought basic cotton ones, though some very traditional groups might have rules against them or prefer homemade versions, with a focus on modesty and plainness rather than modern, fancy designs. 

Who does the bride sleep with the night before?

A: There is no right or wrong answer to whether the bride should sleep with the groom the night before the wedding. Some couples prefer to spend the night apart to build anticipation for the big day, while others feel more comfortable and relaxed staying together.

What is the feminine hygiene of the Amish?

Amish feminine hygiene involves a mix of traditional practices and modern adaptations, focusing on modesty and cleanliness, often using reusable cloth pads (made from rags or sewn cloth), sometimes supplemented with store-bought disposable products, with a strong emphasis on daily bathing (using hot water from solar/gas heaters) and careful hair/body care, though rules vary by community, sometimes restricting things like shaving. While some traditional communities use homemade materials like rags or corn cobs for toilet paper, many now use toilet paper, reflecting a balance between tradition and practicality. 

What should a girl do on her wedding night?

For a bride's first night, focus on relaxing, communicating, and letting go of perfection; take it slow, enjoy foreplay, use lube if needed, and create a comfortable atmosphere with music and candles, remembering it's about connecting, not performing, so prioritize comfort and enjoying the moment with your new spouse.