What they don t tell you about hysterectomy?

No one tells you about the emotional rollercoaster, the surprising relief after pain, potential confusion over what's removed (uterus vs. ovaries), and the individualized recovery, which includes managing psychological impacts like grief for fertility and the practicalities of menopause if ovaries are removed. You might also experience physical shifts, like changes in sex life (often better after pain relief, but potentially drier if ovaries are gone), and the importance of realistic expectations about healing, not just physical but mental, involving potential depression or profound feelings about womanhood.

What does no one tell you about a hysterectomy book?

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The ultimate survival guide for women who want the real talk—not just the medical jargon. This is not your typical clinical brochure. This is the honest, unfiltered, tell-it-like-it-is companion every woman wishes she had before, during, and after a hysterectomy.

What do I wish I knew before my hysterectomy?

Before a hysterectomy, you'll wish you knew how crucial practical prep (meal prep, support system for help), understanding the exact organs removed (uterus only or ovaries/tubes too, impacting menopause), preparing for surgical menopause, and anticipating constipation/mobility limits is, alongside accepting help and preparing for a better quality of life post-surgery, as symptoms often vanish, says this article and this video and this YouTube video.
 

Do breasts get smaller after a hysterectomy?

While some women may notice smaller breasts after a hysterectomy (especially if ovaries are removed), it doesn't happen to everyone. Hormonal changes, age, and lifestyle play a role. If you're concerned, speak to your doctor about ways to manage these changes comfortably.

Can you have fibroids if you had a hysterectomy?

No, you cannot get uterine fibroids after a total hysterectomy because the uterus, where they grow, is completely removed, making it the only definitive cure; however, in very rare cases, fibroid-like growths (extrauterine fibroids) can form outside the uterus from residual tissue or blood supply, especially if only part of the uterus (like a cervix stump) was left, or in the broad ligament/pelvic area. 

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What does a fibroid belly look like?

A fibroid belly looks like a firm, rounded bulge in the lower abdomen, often resembling pregnancy or significant weight gain, but unlike fat or bloating, it's a constant fullness that doesn't easily shift and can feel hard. It's caused by an enlarged uterus from growths (fibroids) that can range in size, creating a distended, taut, or heavy-feeling lower stomach, sometimes mistaken for just fat or bloating.
 

What don't they tell you after a hysterectomy?

You shouldn't have vaginal sex while you're healing from your surgery. But in the long term, many women report that their sex lives do not change after a hysterectomy. Others say that their sex lives actually improve. This may be because removing the uterus can make pelvic pain and abnormal bleeding go away.

How painful is a hysterectomy on a scale of 1 to 10?

Severe pain was reported in 6% (n=1) of patients in phase II, 12% (2) of patients at home, and 24% (4) of patients on postop day 1.At all other time points, pain was reported as no more than moderate. VAS, visual analog scale, 0-1=no pain, 2-4=mild, 5-7=moderate, 8-9=severe, 10=excruciating.

What is the 45 55 breast rule?

The 45-55 breast rule is an aesthetic guideline where 45% of the breast volume sits above the nipple (upper pole) and 55% below (lower pole), creating a natural slope considered most attractive by many, including the general public and plastic surgeons. This ratio avoids overly round (50:50) or saggy (less upper pole) appearances, promoting balanced and harmonious results, often used in breast augmentation to enhance natural symmetry. 

What is the age limit for a hysterectomy?

Hysterectomies are most common for women in their 40s and 50s, often for fibroids or heavy bleeding, with the average age around 42, though they are performed across reproductive ages, with increasing rates in older groups, and can occur in younger women too, though this often prompts stricter monitoring for necessity. By age 60, nearly one-third of American women have had one, but younger women face considerations like early menopause, making discussions with doctors about individual needs crucial.
 

What to do the night before a hysterectomy?

Food, Drink and Medications

You should not smoke or drink alcohol for at least 24 hours before your surgery. The only exception might be taking medicines with a sip of water the morning of surgery, but only if your doctor has instructed you to do so.

What will I need at home after a hysterectomy?

If all goes well, chances are good you'll be discharged the same day as your hysterectomy.

• Have someone with you. ...
• Take time off. ...
• Get up and moving. ...
• Continue taking pain medicine as prescribed. ...
• Eat and drink normal foods. ...
• Use a heating pad on your abdomen, like you would for your period. ...
• Keep your incisions dry.

Do I need to shave my pubic hair before a hysterectomy?

If you are having an abdominal hysterectomy, you will have a strip at the top of your pubic hair shaved the night before your operation.

Do they put a tube down your throat for a hysterectomy?

A tube may be inserted in your throat to give you anesthesia and help you breathe while you are asleep. You may be given antibiotics before surgery. You may have a catheter placed into your bladder to drain urine. You may have special compression stockings placed on your legs to help prevent blood clots.

What is the healthiest age to go through menopause?

Menopause, when it occurs between the ages of 45 and 55, is considered “natural” and is a normal part of aging. Menopause that occurs before the age of 45 is called early menopause. Menopause that occurs at 40 or younger is considered premature menopause.

What did Halle Berry say about menopause?

Halle Berry speaks passionately about menopause as a natural, powerful life stage needing advocacy, education, and destigmatization, highlighting her own misdiagnosis (mistaken for herpes at 54) to reveal poor doctor understanding, and now champions legislation for research, better care, and resources, urging women to embrace this "glorious second act" rather than be diminished, emphasizing that women deserve better health and longevity.
 

What is considered the most desirable breast size?

There's no single "most desirable" breast size, as preference is subjective, but surveys often point to C and D cups as most popular, with men tending to prefer slightly larger than women, who often favor a balanced B or C cup. The key is often proportion and upper pole fullness, with a 45:55 upper-to-lower ratio (more below the nipple) frequently cited as ideal by plastic surgeons for a natural look. Ultimately, the best size is proportional to your body and comfortable for you. 

How much was Dolly Parton's boob job?

Dolly Parton has publicly stated she has spent about $1 million on her breasts over the years, including multiple augmentations, lifts, and revisions, though the exact cost per procedure isn't specified, it reflects decades of surgeries when implants were newer and costs varied greatly. While individual surgery costs vary, her total expenditure highlights a significant investment in her iconic look, from initial implants to ongoing maintenance, costing significantly more than the average modern implant procedure, say sources like Cameo Surgery. 

What is the rarest boob size?

The rarest bra cup sizes are generally the smallest, like AAA or AA cups on very small bands (e.g., 26 or 28), and also the largest, such as P cups or beyond, as mainstream stores rarely stock these extremes, forcing specialized retailers to produce them for a smaller market. While 32A seems common, truly well-fitting small sizes (like 28B/C or 30A/B) are actually rare to find in stores, just as very large sizes are hard to find. 

What hurts worse, a C-section or a hysterectomy?

Generally, a C-section involves more intense, sharp post-operative pain due to the large incision, while a hysterectomy (especially laparoscopic) can have less acute pain but deeper soreness and gas, though severe abdominal surgery pain can be similar; studies suggest C-sections often rank higher in pain intensity and interference with daily life compared to some hysterectomies, but individual experiences vary significantly by surgical approach (open vs. laparoscopic/vaginal). 

How many days rest are required after a hysterectomy?

It can take about 6 to 8 weeks to fully recover after having an abdominal hysterectomy. Recovery times are often shorter after a vaginal or laparoscopy hysterectomy. During this time, you should rest as much as possible and not lift anything heavy, such as bags of shopping.

Are bowel movements increase after hysterectomy?

Increased bowel movements after a hysterectomy are common and usually temporary, stemming from anesthesia, pain meds, stress, or dietary shifts, but can also signal underlying issues like endometriosis affecting bowels or nerve disruption, with organs shifting to fill space. While many see improvement in weeks with diet/activity changes, persistent issues like diarrhea, pain, or blood in stool warrant a doctor's visit to rule out complications or endometriosis, say Apollo 24|7 and Apollo 24|7. 

What condition is commonly developed after a hysterectomy?

For most women, having a hysterectomy will not cause any problems. However, some women may suffer with a slight fever or difficulty in emptying the bladder for a couple of days after the operation. More serious complications such as infection, bleeding and damage to the bowel, bladder or ureters are very rare.

How long will I need pain meds after a hysterectomy?

You'll likely need prescription pain meds for the first 1-2 weeks, especially after an abdominal hysterectomy, but can usually transition to over-the-counter (OTC) pain relievers like ibuprofen and acetaminophen as pain lessens within 2-4 weeks, with most soreness gone by 4-6 weeks, though some discomfort might linger until the full 6-8 week recovery period. The type of surgery (laparoscopic is often quicker) and individual pain tolerance affect this, but staying ahead of the pain with scheduled meds is key. 

What to wear after a hysterectomy?

After a hysterectomy, wear loose, soft clothing with no tight waistbands (like flowy nightgowns, dresses, or sweatpants) to avoid irritating your incision and abdomen, which will likely be swollen and tender. High-waisted underwear is recommended, and front-button shirts, slip-on shoes, and supportive abdominal binders or pillows can also greatly increase comfort and support during healing.